The only thing I dislike more than cats on the counter? Barking dogs. There is one cure and one tool. First the tool:
The cure? Are you ready? One word:
You need to be BORINGLY predictable. Have the bottle ready at every moment. Use it. Soon, you don’t have to use it. You just have to show it. Before you know it, the cat stays on the floor; the dog shows a little self control. Simple.
If it doesn’t work, one mustn’t blame the bottle. Clearly, the bottle works, even though it is just water.
It is like that with kids too. All kids. Even the “spirited” ones. Especially the spirited ones. You don’t need to come down more harshly. Sending them to the administrator is also less than effective. If you feel the need to reach for the hammer, consider
- your relationship with the child
- your culture of engagement
- your ability to consistently respond in gentle ways
It isn’t about WHAT we use as much as it is THAT WE RESPOND. Every time. Calmly,
quickly returning to building that culture of learning.
A classroom engaged rarely has problems.